I am a bi-woman with a girl crush going on with a "sheila at work. How do I know if she is interested or is even "bi" without revealing myself? I don't want to be hurt!
Need help and just someone to talk to about my feelings...
I am a bi-woman with a girl crush going on with a "sheila at work. How do I know if she is interested or is even "bi" without revealing myself? I don't want to be hurt!
Need help and just someone to talk to about my feelings...
Sorry, it took me a while to find out you had answered me :(.
But better late, than never.
Don't worry about your pic, I understand you can't take any chance. As I said: living in a place where people are a little more understanding makes me sometimes forget how difficult everything can be for others.
My relationship with my Love is very satisfying in many ways, but there's always this craving for a girls touch. And for Dominating her. Even my coworkers knew about my 'hobby'. We teased eachother with it. One of my managers called me the company witch, and if you'ld not listen to me, I'd take out my whip, or worse, my broom. It was always in a goodnatured kind of way.
Is there a way you can go on a holiday alone, to a different place, where you can be yourself for a little while?
I'll show you around Amsterdam if you want ;).
Kisses, and hang in there,
~Cal
Sorry, it took me a while to find out you had answered me :(.
But better late, than never.
Don't worry about your pic, I understand you can't take any chance. As I said: living in a place where people are a little more understanding makes me sometimes forget how difficult everything can be for others.
My relationship with my Love is very satisfying in many ways, but there's always this craving for a girls touch. And for Dominating her. Even my coworkers knew about my 'hobby'. We teased eachother with it. One of my managers called me the company witch, and if you'ld not listen to me, I'd take out my whip, or worse, my broom. It was always in a goodnatured kind of way.
Is there a way you can go on a holiday alone, to a different place, where you can be yourself for a little while?
Thanks for the suggestion. My situation though is complicated, no one knows that I am bi-sexual except my sister and she does not fully understand how I feel. I cannot tell any of my female friends as they would be shocked or disappointed. Our culture is not accepting of such things. I have never met a girl who i am aware of who shares my attraction. Sooo..while I am in a happy relationship, I feel as if a part of me is missing...so it is. I guess as we say in Jamaica, "I'll have to hold my corner", until... but, thanks Cal, will use this medium to talk with you if you want!
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Hey,
Thanks for the suggestion. My situation though is complicated, no one knows that I am bi-sexual except my sister and she does not fully understand how I feel. I cannot tell any of my female friends as they would be shocked or disappointed. Our culture is not accepting of such things. I have never met a girl who i am aware of who shares my attraction. Sooo..while I am in a happy relationship, I feel as if a part of me is missing...so it is. I guess as we say in Jamaica, "I'll have to hold my corner", until... but, thanks Cal, will use this medium to talk with you if you want!
It's very difficult to find out if someone is bicurious or not if you can't be open about it I think. I'm very open about everything, and people tend to open up to me too. Maybe you can talk about a book or movie with bi-sexuality as subject (can't think of an exemple right now). Wonder in a group how everyone thinks about it. You know, just being curious.
Not sure if this helps, but good luck anyway.
~Cal
It's very difficult to find out if someone is bicurious or not if you can't be open about it I think. I'm very open about everything, and people tend to open up to me too. Maybe you can talk about a book or movie with bi-sexuality as subject (can't think of an exemple right now). Wonder in a group how everyone thinks about it. You know, just being curious.
